Okay, granted that X does seem to have separated her crown and root chakras for the most part. I spoke in the heat of my first reaction, so I didn't really mean it personally. No offense taken. I think I tend to be pretty sympathetic towards X right now, because I feel like I've been as broken as she is right now.
Frankly, I don't think that I myself would be inclined to do anything but make him sign divorce papers and kick him out the door, but that's me. The thing is that, if even Q won't take him back...why is X even thinking about it? Lady only knows at this point. I seriously hope Q isn't thinking about taking him back; that wouldn't be healthy. My only guess on X's viewpoint is that it's only been two weeks since the revelations began, and she's still in shock and reeling.
I honestly don't think that Y can be trusted. Me neither, and I am very saddened by this. I had thought better of him, before, oh, July or so.
The fact that he's been trying to make X think she was crazy alone would be enough for me. But then, I've been there. Remember Marty? This is By's viewpoint also (citing your experience with Marty, and your parents, and some of my experiences). He spent several hours trying to explain to X why he felt that the emotional manipulation was a greater betrayal than the rest. Now, I just need to get By to sit down and try to explain it to Y...X has asked By (and some of the other guys in Heretic Camp) to sit Y down and talk to him, feeling that a male perspective might be better received. I know Chuck's been trying. Cy, I think, has been trying as well, although his behavior is also somewhat suspect, so he might be seen more as a partner in crime.
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Date: 2003-10-03 01:34 pm (UTC)No offense taken. I think I tend to be pretty sympathetic towards X right now, because I feel like I've been as broken as she is right now.
Frankly, I don't think that I myself would be inclined to do anything but make him sign divorce papers and kick him out the door, but that's me. The thing is that, if even Q won't take him back...why is X even thinking about it?
Lady only knows at this point. I seriously hope Q isn't thinking about taking him back; that wouldn't be healthy. My only guess on X's viewpoint is that it's only been two weeks since the revelations began, and she's still in shock and reeling.
I honestly don't think that Y can be trusted.
Me neither, and I am very saddened by this. I had thought better of him, before, oh, July or so.
The fact that he's been trying to make X think she was crazy alone would be enough for me. But then, I've been there. Remember Marty?
This is By's viewpoint also (citing your experience with Marty, and your parents, and some of my experiences). He spent several hours trying to explain to X why he felt that the emotional manipulation was a greater betrayal than the rest. Now, I just need to get By to sit down and try to explain it to Y...X has asked By (and some of the other guys in Heretic Camp) to sit Y down and talk to him, feeling that a male perspective might be better received. I know Chuck's been trying. Cy, I think, has been trying as well, although his behavior is also somewhat suspect, so he might be seen more as a partner in crime.